Mild2Wild: A group for guys who PnP

🌈 Welcome to Mild2Wild: A supportive online space for 2SGBTQ+ guys who Party and Play (PnP) 

Mild2Wild is a bi-weekly Zoom drop-in group for two-spirit, gay, bi, trans, and queer (2SGBTQ+) guys across Ontario who party and play, use chemsex, or enjoy substances to enhance their intimate play. 

We meet every other Thursday from 7:00pm to 9:00pm EST (email mild2wild@actoronto.ca for the zoom link!)

At Mild2Wild, we’re all about empowering guys who PnP to take care of themselves—and each other. This is a judgment-free zone where you can show up as you are, connect with others, and talk openly about your experiences. No shame. No stigma. Just real support from people who get it. 

🎯 Our Mission 

We’re here to offer a low-barrier, discreet, and positive space for guys who party to connect, learn, and support each other. We won’t pressure you to quit or make promises about your use. Instead, we help you explore your relationship with PnP—on your own terms. 

Created by guys who party, hosted by guys who party, and for guys who party.  “Nothing about us, without us.” 

👥 Who We Are 

Our hosts are part of the PnP community and committed to helping others party safer and feel better. We come from diverse backgrounds and lived experiences, reflecting the community we serve. We’re also grateful for the support from GMSH and ACT Toronto, who help make this space possible. 

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Who Should Join? 

If you’re a 2SGBTQ+ guy who parties—or is just curious—you’re invited. No matter your background, experience, or comfort level, Mild2Wild is here for you. 

📷 Not Camera-Ready? No Problem. 

We get it. You can join with your camera off, use an alias, and chat instead of speaking. Whatever makes you feel safe and comfortable. And don’t worry—our meetings are never recorded. 

🕖 When We Meet 

Every other Thursday 
7:00–9:00 p.m. (EST) 
Drop in when you can, leave when you need to. Most folks stay the full two hours—because yes, it’s that good. 

🗣️ What We Talk About 

We cover real-life stuff that matters to guys who party, like: 

• Erectile dysfunction 

• Consent 

• Responding to psychosis 

• Racism in the scene 

• Plus, topics suggested by attendees 

No filters. Just honest, affirming, and sometimes hilarious conversations. 

📩 How to Join 

Just email us at mild2wild@actoronto.ca to get on the mailing list and receive the Zoom link. That’s it! 

Ready to connect with a community that gets you? 
Come as you are. Stay as long as you like. Mild2Wild is here for you.