Sex and Drugs
Some people use substances like alcohol, weed, poppers, meth (Tina), MDMA, cocaine, or GHB before or during sex. You might do this alone, with a partner, or in a Party and Play (PnP) setting. Drugs can help you relax or feel more pleasure. But they can also make it harder to stay aware of your body and make good choices about your health. Below are some simple tips to use more safely.
General Tips
- Start slow. Take small amounts first and wait longer between doses.
- Be careful mixing drugs. Different substances—like other recreational drugs, T, or HIV meds—can change how each one acts in your body. Visit the Resources page or the Drug Use section of this site for more help.
- Don’t share equipment. That means pipes, straws, or even dollar bills.
- Use with people you trust. Or let a friend know you’re using so they can check on you.
- Watch your walls. Taking drugs front-hole or anally can damage those tissues and make it easier to get HIV or Hep C.
- Keep food and water nearby. Staying hydrated helps you stay safe and feel better.
- Look out for overdose signs: slurred speech, unconsciousness, shallow breathing, clammy skin, weak pulse, or someone going into a coma. If you see these signs, check on them right away.
- Have a naloxone kit on hand. It can reverse an opioid overdose long enough to get medical help. Many pharmacies and some provinces give these kits and training for free. Always call 911, too, even if you use naloxone.
Safer Injecting
- Use new gear every time. Sharing or reusing needles can spread HIV, Hep B, and Hep C, and cause other infections. Find free supplies at local harm-reduction services.
- Prepare your tools. Have clean cookers, spoons, filters, distilled water, and alcohol swabs ready.
- Pick the right needle. Different drugs and injection sites need different needle sizes for safety and comfort.
Stay curious, stay safe, and remember that small steps can make a big difference in how you feel and how you protect your health.
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